Earthly Father

“The LORD is like a father to his children, tender and compassionate to those who fear him.”—Psalm 103:13 (NLT)

Today would have been my father’s 89th birthday. It is still hard for me to fathom he has been gone for nearly twenty years now (in November). I still miss him to this day. I think about how much he has missed out on with his grandchildren and now great grandchildren. He would have enjoyed them so much.

He was the glue that held the family together. Family was super important to him. He stepped in and up in mine and my children’s lives to help fill the void after my first husband John’s death. He didn’t think twice moving my son and I into the home I grew up in until I got back on my feet.

I knew when he passed the family dynamics would change with only my mother. They did. For her it wasn’t the same. She was okay with seeing her children and grandchildren a few times a year. This wasn’t the case with my dad. He thrived having us all together.

I see so many of my dad’s traits in my brothers. They too have careers in the automotive industry as well as 3 of his grandchildren. His strong work ethic was instilled in all of us and is now evident in the grandchildren. If you would have told me my son would have ended up in the car business I would have said, no way. But here is working for Toyota Motor Corporation and now living in Japan with his family for two years.

As young adults, my brothers and I may not have always gone to church, when we were younger, but my dad made sure we went. We were in Sunday school and youth group. Because we were raised in the church, all three of us did the same with our families. It is such a blessing to see my children plugged into a church with my grandchildren. I now know what my dad must have felt seeing his children doing it as well.

I realize how fortunate I was to have had a loving father and strong male role model in my life. Not everyone has had this experience. For those who may not have had this, you have a Heavenly Father whose love and compassion for you is greater than an earthly father could give you.

Psalm 103:13 tells us; The LORD is like a father to his children, tender and compassionate to those who fear him. This connects my earthly experience with the perfect love of my Heavenly Father. Just as my dad showed compassion, God’s compassion is even deeper and more reliable. As great as my dad’s love was for me, God’s is even bigger.

Today as I remember my father, I cherish the good he left behind as his legacy as well as the compassion I received which ultimately points me to the perfect love of my Heavenly Father.

Father God,
Thank You for the gift of my earthly father. While he is no longer here with me, I am thankful for how he reflected Your love in his heart. I rest in the hope that one day we will be reunited together in Your presence. I lift those up to You who may be grieving the death of a loved one. May they feel Your loving arms around them. It is in the name of Jesus Christ I pray these things. Amen.

July Verse
“Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom.”—2 Corinthians 3:17

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Praying Scripture

During my prayer time, I also incorporate scriptures to pray over my day. This way of pouring into God’s Word overflows into my words and actions. When you find a scripture that speaks to you, grab a hold of it and trust it. By praying scripture, we are standing and believing God’s Word over our lives. It also gives you a greater confidence in your prayer life.

Several years ago, a pastor at a church we used to attend shared how he prayed Ephesians 3:16-19 over his children every day. After I heard that sermon, I started to do the same for mine. Brandon and Danielle were in their early teens when I started doing this. Now, I also pray this daily for their spouses and their children. This is what my prayer looks like:

Father, I pray through Your glorious unlimited resources that You will empower Pat, Brandon, Mallory, Lincoln, Oliver, Danielle, Collin, Callahan and I with Your inner strength through Your Spirit; That Christ will make His home in our hearts as we trust in Him; That our roots will grow deep down in Your love and keep us strong. And may we have the power today to understand as all Your people should, how wide, how long, how high, and how deep Your love is for us. May we experience the love of Christ, though it is too great to understand fully so that we will be made complete with all fullness of life and power that comes from You, God.

I even like praying Ephesians 3:16 by itself for myself. Especially when I feel weak and unsure of what direction to go. I will pray; Lord, I pray from Your glorious unlimited resources You will empower me with Your inner strength through the Holy Spirit. The more I pray Ephesians 3:16, the more I experience this. Sometimes it is hard for me to fathom Christ is in me. However, feeling God’s presence in you is life changing. Knowing I don’t have to rely on my own wisdom and strength gives me peace.

If you aren’t sure how to pray today, try incorporating praying scripture. It is a powerful way to anchor your day. By saying God’s Word back to Him, it strengthens your faith as well as reshapes your attitude, actions and thoughts. You can do like I did. Take a verse that speaks to you and personalize it to make it your own.

Father God,
Thank You for the gift of Your living and active Word. May I faithfully pray scripture into my day. Let it become a daily rhythm for me. I ask for those who feel weak to take comfort knowing that Your glorious riches WILL strengthen them through the power of the Holy Spirit living inside of them. I pray these things in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen.

July Verse
“Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom.”—2 Corinthians 3:17
If you are knitting or crocheting gifts to give away, please make sure you tweet @KnitPrayShare or share your projects on the Knit, Pray, Share Facebook page or Instagram using the hashtag #KnitPrayShare. Be sure to attach a tag to whatever gift you make.